So I was invited to go to a wedding this weekend. This chick i know is getting married. (no, it's not that kind of typical E90 post). Also invited to this wedding is a guy i know. Let's just say, we have serious, serious issues with each other. She knows this, but is friends with both of us, so we are both invited. I know that i can go there, and be cool, and ignore this cat, but i know once this dude gets drunk, he's gonna cause problems. i just know it. I;ve known this chick for a while, and i don;t want her day getting ruined by stupid activity. So should I....

1. Go to the wedding, behave myself, and if this dude acts a fool then regulate like i normally would, since it would be his actions that start things.

2. do i just go to the ceremony, show face, and skip the reception where dude will get blasted.

3. do i not go at all, therefore ensuring her wedding doesn;t have drama?

Go to the wedding and support your friend. Go to the reception as well. If you see dude getting drunk than that's the time to go. Just let the wedding party know you leaving to avoid drama. Don't let some asshole get in the way of some fun.

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Yeah, in a perfect world, that would be best case scenario. Problem is if dude steps to me, i;m not wired to walk away. But i hear your point. maybe go, stay through dinner, and bounce before the alcohol really starts flowing.

As a man I won't expect you to walk away if you were stepped up to. You can always tell dude to meet you around the corner and not ruin the wedding. Most likely he won't.

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Go to the wedding and have a drink with him. Life is too short to hold issues with people, unless he fucked your wife or some shit extra personal. Go there and just take what the defense gives. If he looks at you or if you cross paths, just look at him and give him the acknowledgement nod. If you got a drink in your hand, raise ya glass. If he wanna start some shit, just tell him it aint the place and walk away from him. When you at a wedding trying to look good, it's no good to let some asshole fuck with your groove. Such situations are great opportunities to show people how much of a gentlemen you can be. use it!

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No, he will. This goes back a long time between us. Some family history shit. But you get the point. Aight, i;m gonna ride and see what happens.

This has been tried. There's too much bad blood. I know i got enough control to just go there and put due on mute, but i know he doesn;t have the same ability. Rest assured it wouldn;t be me who wants to start stuff. but who knows, maybe his people will keep him in check and it will be all good.

Cant fix it huh. Alright, well just go there and keep it cool. We don't bitch up and stay home because some dude is gonna be at the party.

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Yeah, it's been tried. When an Italian from Prov tells you that there is "family" history, i don;t mean he fucked my cousin, know what i;m saying?

It sounds like an opportunity for a really good story. I would say go be yourself and get fucked up. Whatever happens happens. For the sake of the story, make some fun shit happen. Whip his ass out back.

It sounds like an opportunity for a really good story. I would say go be yourself and get fucked up. Whatever happens happens. For the sake of the story, make some fun shit happen. Whip his ass out back.

I hope he glasses you you faggot mutt

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A. It sound like you scared lol.

B. If not, just go you probably will have a good time dude might not be tripping either.

C. Let's hear the bad blood. This is BHO we hold nothing back, the people wanna know!

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Your probably over thinking the outcome.

People usually behave when they're suppose to. Especially at functions that has nothing to do with them. It's a mutual friends special day. You might see buddy and he completely ignores you. Or he might speak, and keep it kosher for respect of the wedding. And if something extra happens. Just keep it peaceful for as long as possible until he gets out of line like confronting or touching you. Then you beat his ass. But if he makes a fool of himself without you having to go an extra yard. Let him, you'll look like the mature adult while he looks like a idiot.

Update - went to the wedding, had a good time. There was a tense moment, dude started spitting off at the mouth, but his people kept him in check and they soon left. Proceeded to get fucked up and have a good time.