Yea it sounds fucked up but I don't feel the same love for her as I once did. My kids are grown so I won't owe money to child support. She can have the house and one car. Sell the boat the i don't give a fuck.

Any advice?

Buddy, this is off topic material!

Also, idk, I shouldn't say this because I kind of like you more now than I did then.. but fuck it this is boxinghideout and alls we do is bust each others balls so - I think you started having these thoughts after I went in on you licking her bum hole.

She didn't like it, now he's calling her boring!

I cant even give you advice man, but boredom is a bitch. Does she work?

Whoa...how do you think she will take it?
I stuck in my marriage too damn long, but every situation is different.
Your kids are grown.
You need to have a conversation with her, but you can't let her plot.
I ain't tryin to be cold, but them spiders can built quite the web.

Also, idk, I shouldn't say this because I kind of like you more now than I did then.. but fuck it this is boxinghideout and alls we do is bust each others balls so - I think you started having these thoughts after I went in on you licking her bum hole.

Kaos there's gotta be a reason she's just laying there. Did she catch you cheating? She might now you're fucking around but hasn't said anything..

Have yall tried counseling?

On the real. This is my biggest fear about marriage, ending up with a Wife whos sexual desire just goes cold one day. Bad enough you had to beg for another baby to no avail, but you gotta beg for sex, and there isn't even effort put in???? Shit like that drives a man to cheat! I commend you for whatever stretch you've been on of not cheating. No dis to your wife but on the real, women like that are just too selfish. I aint saying you should divorce her, but if you went that route I wouldn't blame you at all brother.