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Author:  V [ Sun Jan 08, 2023 3:06 am ]
Post subject:  My father passed today.

It happens just like that...
it hurts...
making the decision to pull the plug with no extraordinary measures.
damn man..it hurts.

Author:  Jermzhi [ Sun Jan 08, 2023 6:17 pm ]
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Sorry to hear about that Brother...I feel you man...how young? What happened?

Author:  V [ Mon Jan 09, 2023 3:17 pm ]
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73yrs old...but he lived hard and so it is old. Been sober for 40 years and hadn't smoked in 7yrs I think.

It ain't worth getting into man cuz I ain't parlaying this into anything...

but I will be damned to just say it...it was blood clots that caused his lungs to fill with water causing pneumonia. Choices man...choices. One was to amputate his legs. He hasn't been right in a while and I'd suspect the blood clots were fucking his brain up for a good while.

I made the decision and honored his wishes. No extraordinary measures and I know he was ready. He told me Thanksgiving he was ready.

Author:  Jermzhi [ Mon Jan 09, 2023 4:30 pm ]
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Awww Bro 73 is too soon man, I'm sorry for your loss. If they tell you they are ready, only one way to go with it. We had that fight in the hospital and I almost put hands on my uncle. But we all let go when the time was right.

He's a rest now Brother. The rest of us carry on the struggle.

Author:  Austinholic_3:16 [ Tue Jan 10, 2023 9:25 am ]
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My condolences V. May he rest in peace. He's with God now. It obviously hurts and will always hurt. But reaching heaven is part of everyone's end goal. The good ones at least.

Author:  DaTruth [ Thu Jan 12, 2023 6:20 pm ]
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Sorry to hear that V. Rest in peace to your Pops, the only solace during these shit times are that you know he isn't struggling or going through no more discomfort.
Damn man, 40 years sober and 7 off the smoke, strong man.

Hang in there V.

Author:  V [ Thu Jan 12, 2023 6:32 pm ]
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He was a man with the utmost faith in the "God Almighty" or "The Lord" as he often said.
It was maybe the 1 thing that wasn't up for discussion or query.
"You better get right with the God Almighty son...everybody's judgment day is coming."

Damn shit is heartbreaking though...now I got a stepfamily 1000 miles away picking over bones like they got a right. The only person with that right is me and soon I'll have a fight of the legal kind. That is going to suck ass. His last ex-wife said a will isn't on file with the probate court because there wasn't enough. Yet there is a full house of goods, 2 cars, and the house itself. She's claiming they have an agreement he could live out his final days there and in return, she gets to do what she's doing. Meanwhile, I've asked for that will--a copy...but she hadn't sent it yet. Blood family seems to think she doctored up something.

Signed off with the funeral home to have him cremated as he wanted and sent remains to his broken-hearted sister so I can make it down and spread his ashes over the rock face of Glassy Mountain which is a magnificent rock to behold. For 70 years he saw that rockface from his living room window.

FUcking shit birds...well shit birds anyway like my Grandma said.

Author:  Brother Burowz [ Tue Jan 17, 2023 5:43 am ]
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My condolences V. May he rest in peace. He's with God now. It obviously hurts and will always hurt. But reaching heaven is part of everyone's end goal. The good ones at least.



I thought you were an atheist?

Author:  Austinholic_3:16 [ Tue Jan 17, 2023 1:24 pm ]
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My condolences V. May he rest in peace. He's with God now. It obviously hurts and will always hurt. But reaching heaven is part of everyone's end goal. The good ones at least.



I thought you were an atheist?


Yes i was.

Author:  Brother Burowz [ Wed Jan 18, 2023 1:10 am ]
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My condolences V. May he rest in peace. He's with God now. It obviously hurts and will always hurt. But reaching heaven is part of everyone's end goal. The good ones at least.



I thought you were an atheist?


Yes i was.


:hearty-laugh: :hearty-laugh:

Author:  Austinholic_3:16 [ Wed Jan 18, 2023 11:16 am ]
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Me and the good lord will fuck your honkey ass up.

Author:  aneed123 [ Fri Jun 30, 2023 2:40 pm ]
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my prayers and condolences to u and ur family. I feel ur pain. I lost my mom in March.

Author:  Jermzhi [ Tue Jul 04, 2023 9:50 am ]
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my prayers and condolences to u and ur family. I feel ur pain. I lost my mom in March.


Condolences Brother. May Moms soul find Rest and Comfort!

Author:  Icecold323 [ Thu Jul 13, 2023 4:13 pm ]
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RIP and sorry for your loss

Author:  Icecold323 [ Thu Jul 13, 2023 4:17 pm ]
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I always thought it was cool how when white people die, people get stuff lol or the families get stuff.

Go hard bro, get that house the car you know he would have wanted you to have

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